5.25.2009

HAPPY ADOPTION DAY LU!



One year ago today we waited in a hot, small, overcrowded Government Center to meet our son. A small van arrived and a little boy emerged in the arms of his A'yi (Auntie), a big grin on his face, a twinkle in his eyes. Its been an amazing love affair ever since.

Lu is perpetually happy and wants everyone around him to share the same state of mind. He has a naturally lean, athletic, muscular body with all the confidence and competence to keep a parent on high alert at all times. His vocabulary is enormous, thanks to a talkative big sister and his brain is already chocked full of amazing facts, also courtesy of Clara. Everyone who meets Lu loves him, even the random folks he passes in the grocery store, calling out a cheerful "Happy Birthday!" with his sweet grin and stopping the crankiest of people dead in their tracks. If there were only 1 cookie left on earth and it belonged to Lu, he would gladly give it up to whomever asked him for it and supply them with a "you're welcome!" before they even got out a "thank you"

I am thankful everyday to be his Mommy and as I rocked him tonight and he fell asleep on my lap, I wondered how much longer he would fit here, how much longer would his head tuck under my chin, how much longer would I be able to pick him up and hold him close, kissing his impossibly soft cheeks and loving the weight of him in my arms. Lu will turn 3 on June 7th, he turned 2 right after we arrived home from China last year. In just 1 short year he's grown up so much, shedding all traces of baby with a speed that I haven't caught up to yet. I hope this next year goes nice and slow, I want to savor every moment.

We love you Lu, thanks for all you've given us.

5.16.2009

BECAUSE I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE THIS PICTURE


Everything you ever wanted to know about my kids is in this picture. They are happy kids. And they love each other more than I ever thought possible. Clara was meant to be a big sister, Lu was meant to be a little brother, the dynamics of their relationship is perfection, not always without some drama mind you, but watching these two in action elevates my life to a whole new level every day.

5.13.2009

AWWW, AREN'T THEY PRECIOUS! Part Two

Actual conversation:

Me: "okay Clara, it's time for you to go to sleep and Mom to go downstairs and wash dishes (code for lay on the couch and watch TV)"

Clara: "but Mom, I want you to scratch myyyy baaaackk" (additional letters meant to convey whining)

me: sigh (to give myself a mental acknowledgment of wearniness) smile (to reassure her I'd do anything in the world to make her happy) "okay, but just for a minute, I've got a lot of dishes! (code for my shows about to start!)

back scratching begins.
back scratching ends.

Clara: "if you don't keep scratching my back I'll go find someone else to live with"

Me: (thinking for just a brief moment — ahhhh. perfect. no interruptions while I finally get a chance to sit down, relax and watch mindless television...can you ask if they'll feed you breakfast before bringing you back home? And hey, before you leave, will you make Mommy a gin and tonic?) "oh honey I would be so sad if you decided to do that. And chances are, those people won't scratch your back past 8:00 p.m. either. I love you, now go to sleep sweetheart."